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Originally Posted by s0me0nesmind1 View Post
I kind of like this - give a simple ultimatum "Either commit to quitting with inpatient treatment, or self-destruct until you reach rock bottom, while we fight CPS to take your child away at the same time".

An ultimatum? Sure it can make you feel self righteous and all, but I imagine she might feel betrayed and angry as well. This seems like a way to push her away, because it shows you that you don't have the slightest bit of understanding about her situation. Do not allow her to reach rock bottom. That means death.

And please, seek advice from a professional who has dealt with this sort of thing before. You have too much of an investment in this which might exacerbate the situation further. You're not supposed to be teaching her a lesson.
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