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I work and study. While I do enjoy both I merely do them because...I'm 'supposed to'.
At least I'll get bloody rich so I can do everything I would ever want to in my spare time.

edit: wait...is this thread about your virginity only or what?

sounds like me

this thread was about whether i blew my best chances to enjoy life, not that i will be done with college in 2 semesters from now. but you guys said its not too late

i was also wondering whether girls will find guys more attractive or less so for being virgins after college is over, and one guy earlier said yes, but thats if you're not a shy nerd, which i am, so i'm at a big disadvantage

how can i possibly change after college? i'm not close friends with anyone in my college, except for maybe these 2 guys, both of whom are nerds with no social lives. i have no high school friends i keep in touch with
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sounds like me

this thread was about whether i blew my best chances to enjoy life, not that i will be done with college in 2 semesters from now. but you guys said its not too late

i was also wondering whether girls will find guys more attractive or less so for being virgins after college is over, and one guy earlier said yes, but thats if you're not a shy nerd, which i am, so i'm at a big disadvantage

how can i possibly change after college? i'm not close friends with anyone in my college, except for maybe these 2 guys, both of whom are nerds with no social lives. i have no high school friends i keep in touch with
Being a 'nerd' isn't an instant negative, it really depends on your personality. Do you sit around playing D&D and talking about Transformers, etc etc or are you just good at computers and enjoy video games?

Looking back at college I could have done so much better with my knowledge of computers. None of the girls I know are capable of fixing their own computers. The other week this incredibly hot girl at the gym was talking to me about how she needs me to clean out her laptop from all the porn her ex used to have.

Use your skills to your advantage.
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The other week this incredibly hot girl at the gym was talking to me about how she needs me to clean out her laptop from all the porn her ex used to have.

Use your skills to your advantage.

No offense, but it just sounds like a hot girl using her looks to get some computer nerd to do her bidding and fix her computer for free. What are you getting out of the interaction besides drooling over her looks?
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Being a 'nerd' isn't an instant negative, it really depends on your personality. Do you sit around playing D&D and talking about Transformers, etc etc or are you just good at computers and enjoy video games?

Looking back at college I could have done so much better with my knowledge of computers. None of the girls I know are capable of fixing their own computers. The other week this incredibly hot girl at the gym was talking to me about how she needs me to clean out her laptop from all the porn her ex used to have.

Use your skills to your advantage.

So be a tool bag for every hot girl? No thanks.
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Pretty off topic, but I didn't think it was worth making its own thread:

I've been hanging out with this girl for awhile, cuddling, spooning, etc., took her out on a date last week. Went in for the kiss and got cheeked and she said "Not yet." I started freaking out (thought I did something wrong) but it turns out that she has never been in a serious relationship, and hasn't even kissed a guy yet (!). Is this a bad sign? She's 20 years old, pretty cute and pretty cool, so I don't really mind waiting awhile, but I don't know if I can hold out a long time without some physical intimacy. She apologized that she has been taking things very slow. Anyone have similar experience?
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How could the best years of your life be when you still (for the most people):

1) Have nothing (i.e. can't say all you have YOU earned)
2) Don't have a steady source of income with benefits and all that jazz
3) A stable relationship you've gained by first learning the lessons of old ones
4) The ability to know how to handle things from life experience
5) the opportunity required to screw up and learn from things?
6) have not left a mark on the world, like a child, project, or other things?

Don't believe these are the best years and you have nothing to look forward to. If you considered college to be your best years, it's like admitting that you enjoyed slacking off more and having no responsibility than progressing in real life.

I think that's the big difference between people who consider college the best years and the years after to be the best. Looking at it as negative will make future years anything but the best.
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Pretty off topic, but I didn't think it was worth making its own thread:

I've been hanging out with this girl for awhile, cuddling, spooning, etc., took her out on a date last week. Went in for the kiss and got cheeked and she said "Not yet." I started freaking out (thought I did something wrong) but it turns out that she has never been in a serious relationship, and hasn't even kissed a guy yet (!). Is this a bad sign? She's 20 years old, pretty cute and pretty cool, so I don't really mind waiting awhile, but I don't know if I can hold out a long time without some physical intimacy. She apologized that she has been taking things very slow. Anyone have similar experience?

just in the opposite direction.

take it easy, she's probably not malformed, just cautious. no one wants to get burned by jumping into something too soon. the worst feeling in the world is making premature decisions and assumptions. just take your time, keep doing what you're doing and talking to her like you talk to her. remember, she likes you for a reason and there's no need to fix what isn't broken. you're in the green.
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How could the best years of your life be when you still (for the most people):

1) Have nothing (i.e. can't say all you have YOU earned)
2) Don't have a steady source of income with benefits and all that jazz
3) A stable relationship you've gained by first learning the lessons of old ones
4) The ability to know how to handle things from life experience
5) the opportunity required to screw up and learn from things?
6) have not left a mark on the world, like a child, project, or other things?

Don't believe these are the best years and you have nothing to look forward to. If you considered college to be your best years, it's like admitting that you enjoyed slacking off more and having no responsibility than progressing in real life.

I think that's the big difference between people who consider college the best years and the years after to be the best. Looking at it as negative will make future years anything but the best.

you can arguably have all those things while in college.

to the OP:

just take your time with things, make an effort to get to know people. the best years of your life are when you're comfortable with yourself.
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No offense, but it just sounds like a hot girl using her looks to get some computer nerd to do her bidding and fix her computer for free. What are you getting out of the interaction besides drooling over her looks?
She asked me out to lunch with her tomorrow.
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So be a tool bag for every hot girl? No thanks.
As opposed to sitting around feeling shitty about life like the OP was basically doing? Getting out and socializing is never a bad thing. You only get used if you let yourself.
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She asked me out to lunch with her tomorrow.

Let us know what happens when you try to make a move. I've seen this all happen before and it could be she likes you and used the computer as an excuse to hang out, or the opposite and now she's feeling like she owes you something and will do the lunch thing as compensation. A good tell-tale sign is if she brings a friend along. If she does then she's likely not really interested.
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Let us know what happens when you try to make a move. I've seen this all happen before and it could be she likes you and used the computer as an excuse to hang out, or the opposite and now she's feeling like she owes you something and will do the lunch thing as compensation. A good tell-tale sign is if she brings a friend along. If she does then she's likely not really interested.
1) She mentioned the computer work but I never actually did it, it just came up in part of our regular conversation

2) It'll just be the two of us.

But I'll let you know how it goes. She's actually blown off hanging out with me a couple of times, so I don't expect much, but she did ask me to lunch so who knows.
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I think you're over thinking things you heard from others. Stop over thinking and start doing things. Who gives a shit about what other people say, start going out and meeting people and find out for yourself what life is about.

Exactly! Life is what you make it.
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1) She mentioned the computer work but I never actually did it, it just came up in part of our regular conversation

2) It'll just be the two of us.

But I'll let you know how it goes. She's actually blown off hanging out with me a couple of times, so I don't expect much, but she did ask me to lunch so who knows.

was she blowing off plans you suggested or things she had invited you to?
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