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girlfriend gets sore from sex

Recently I havent seen my girlfriend much due to my exams and studies, and she is living further from me right now (about 2 hour drive) so I see her maybe once a week for this month.

So we dont have sex as often as we do, but recently when we see each other once a week and we have sex she seems to get sore. The other day she was giving me head, and I was fingering her (she was pretty wet) and then we go at it for maybe 10 minutes. She likes it hard so Im thrusty in missionary position and then she says shes getting sore.

Usually we go at it for around 30 minutes, but other times around a hour and it wouldnt be a problem. It seem have bothered her a bit (she kinda wanted to stop). What could it be? I would say not enough lube? But we didnt use to have a problem like this.
Old 04-10-2009, 05:26 AM error-in-excellence123 is offline  
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sore how? where?

if it's her vag wall/cervix then stop pounding so hard. if it's her lips and hole then yes use lube/more of it

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she says its the inside of her vagina
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she says its the inside of her vagina

my ex gf used to say that but i always suspected that she just didnt want to have sex. she was a manipulative bitch and would use things like sex against me.

I guess that doesn't really help your situation since I always thought it was
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she says its the inside of her vagina

Do you curve any particular direction? Maybe your body parts just aren't compatible at that angle.

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my ex gf used to say that but i always suspected that she just didnt want to have sex. she was a manipulative bitch and would use things like sex against me.

I guess that doesn't really help your situation since I always thought it was

How is this relevant to the OP? Are you saying that sex can't hurt females, or that the only time they would admit it is to hurt you?

OP: try using more lube or being more gentle at first. If you are not having it as frequently, you have to work your way into how you were when you were doing it more often.
If it continues she can go to her gyno and see if there is something going on in there, but odds are that one of the first two will help.
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If you dont have sex often then it will hurt her. Pretty simple really.
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I forgot to say we dont use a condom, thats why I added the part about head and me fingering her.

This is how we always do it, never needed lube etc. I just wantd to make sure, I am a little rough at thebeginning.
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I dont curve or anything, I dont know if its a specific position or not as I didnt take note before but it started happenign frequently so I just decided to ask
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^ lol, are you a sniper?

its frequent because of you guys being infrequent. I would buy her a vibe and have her use it a couple times a week.
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So we dont have sex as often as we do...

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She likes it hard so Im thrusty....

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...and then she says shes getting sore.

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What could it be?



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If you dont have sex often then it will hurt her. Pretty simple really.

Basically this. When I was in a LTR and came home after a few months she would be sore the first few times we had sex, but then after she got used to it again she would be fine. Just take it easy for a while and you should be fine.
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