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Paintball. Paint = Pain = Comfort = Sexy times later that night.


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lol, I play paintball competitively, and have never even given consideration to taking a girl on a date to a field. Then again...I would have to play so terribly to let her win haha, she would absolutely know that I was playing down to her, which would probably come off bad.
Old 02-16-2008, 08:23 AM diearzte2 is offline  
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Why do you keep pointing out shes nineteen?

I find it hard to believe its for the posterity of the thread - Does the fact that shes nineteen make you feel guilty or uncomfortable and you're just not saying anything? Look deep and ask yourself this - and don't make excuses. If this is the case, or you've got some other emotion attached to her age, I would say that's fairly common. But I would encourage you to come clean about it and nip it in the bud. You cant let age be the determining factor for a relationship. (barring any pedo shit you creepy mofo's are into ala 4chan).


Also, next time don't ask for permission to kiss her, or any woman for that matter, even if the question is passive. A woman wants someone who's in control and who knows what they want. You want to kiss her - so KISS HER.

And it wont be creepy, and she wont lean back, because before you kiss her you'll have built up enough comfort, and she'll be used to your touch enough that a kiss will simply seem naturally like the next step, and it wont be forced.

The only time I;d ask, would be if it was blazingly obvious SHE WANTS THE COCK *NOW*. Then I would tease her with a question like that. Perhaps moving in for the kiss before she even answers.

The reason I really like the fact that she's 19, is because she's young and a hottie. Young girls seem less corrupted, and typically they are hotter than older women. I see it as a accomplishment to get the attention of a 19 yr old.
But I also mention her age, because she's under 21. Normally when I go out to places, at the places I go to there is an age requirement, so now I need to rethink.

It had already been 3 hangouts and I didnt wanna wait any longer before getting a kiss, things were moving too slow. It was a little awkward and I wish I didnt have to ask, but I just had to go for it because I'm too nervous around her. We hardly ever touched before that.

I dont know how to touch a woman in a pregame sorta way. Touching them before, just to work your way in seems awkward. I mean I give women hugs and stuff, but I usually dont touch them in other ways unless I want something from them.

The moment wasnt perfect. But this made up for the last woman that I really wanted to kiss but never did. This other girl, I wanted to kiss because she was hot and because I thought she was out of my league. I went on 3 dates with her and never ended up kissing her cuz we didnt hangout after the third date.
But this time with this girl I wanted to seize the day, and get something that at one point I thought to be impossible for me. And I did, and now if we never hangout again I'll know that at least I got to taste her lips.
Old 02-16-2008, 10:35 AM krillbee is offline  
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But you did want something from her... so touch away.
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But you did want something from her... so touch away.

But if I want a girl and I touch her I usually wrap my arms around her and makeout with her. Or theres always cuddling.

But... I dont just like casually brush a woman's arm, or nudge her, or put my hand on her shoulder, etc. I dont use touch as a way to creep my way in. I just jump right in and go for it all at once when I sense there is chemistry.
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But if I want a girl and I touch her I usually wrap my arms around her and makeout with her. Or theres always cuddling.

But... I dont just like casually brush a woman's arm, or nudge her, or put my hand on her shoulder, etc. I dont use touch as a way to creep my way in. I just jump right in and go for it all at once when I sense there is chemistry.

I mean - you can do that. Plowing that is, but it's only going to work in certain situations - and it can set a bad vibe for later down the road.


Shoulder touches, holding hands, playing games, hugs (women LOVE hugs), and so-on, eventually leading to hair touching, and hair pulling, neck biting, and kissing, is a natural progression.

If you all of a sudden start making out or whatever, there is obviously enough attraction there, but what happens sometimes is the girl will be like "why did he wait until 20-30-40 minutes into our interaction to touch me? This is a bit weird" - she'll never say that, but she'll be thinking it.


Nothing wrong with plowing like that - but I'd really encourage you to start playing around with light touching - you will see a HUGE and measurable difference in your game if you start doing this. Women are sexual and emotional creatures, and love touching - so touch away - just don't be creepy about it.
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I mean - you can do that. Plowing that is, but it's only going to work in certain situations - and it can set a bad vibe for later down the road.


Shoulder touches, holding hands, playing games, hugs (women LOVE hugs), and so-on, eventually leading to hair touching, and hair pulling, neck biting, and kissing, is a natural progression.

If you all of a sudden start making out or whatever, there is obviously enough attraction there, but what happens sometimes is the girl will be like "why did he wait until 20-30-40 minutes into our interaction to touch me? This is a bit weird" - she'll never say that, but she'll be thinking it.


Nothing wrong with plowing like that - but I'd really encourage you to start playing around with light touching - you will see a HUGE and measurable difference in your game if you start doing this. Women are sexual and emotional creatures, and love touching - so touch away - just don't be creepy about it.

I took your advice tonight and tried out some of your ideas I was on a date (different girl) and I did a little tease touching. *accidently* bumping her while we were out walking, played some light footsy while having tea, then at the the bookstore teasing her by pulling her away from the books (shes a book nerd) and then slightly carressed and eventually held her hand in the theatre, and then put my arm around her while outside to keep her warm cuz she was shivering (gotta love the winter!)

And it all worked well! When I kissed her later on things felt a lot more natural.

Thanks for the tip!
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Well folks, tonight I hit a home run I kissed the 19 year old, and I went out clubbing afterwards and had some major success.

A "home run" according to you is kissing a 19 year old? Way to aim high, bro!!

What are you going to call it when you finally get into her pants?
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A "home run" according to you is kissing a 19 year old? Way to aim high, bro!!

What are you going to call it when you finally get into her pants?



18, 19 year olds >>>>>>>>>>>> 20+ imo
Old 02-20-2008, 06:16 AM diearzte2 is offline  
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Well folks, tonight I hit a home run I kissed the 19 year old, and I went out clubbing afterwards and had some major success.

So we hungout again. At first she was playing coy when i was texting her, and when i asked her what she was doing tonight said she might be going out. I said "me too, maybe we could work something", and she invited me along. I had supper with her friends (guys and girls) and its pretty funny because they are all really open minded and make sick jokes all the time. We had fun.

Anyway, we go back to her place to play some Rock Band on ps2, and then later on her friends leave and we are chatting for awhile. We are sitting on the couch, and we she laughed because a new years kiss poster was still up on her wall, and i asked if she wanted a good night kiss, and she laughed and said "i dont care, sure" but turned her head right towards me and we madeout for a bit. Then we said goodnight, I took off and hit up the club. (she had to go to bed at 11 cuz she had work at 6am the next day, and also i wanted to leave cuz a hot chick friend wanted to meet up with me at the club)

So at the club there was a pajama party and the place was packed. I danced with a variety of hot chicks there including my female friend that came. I got shot down a ton but I kept on asking, and ended up dancing with about 4-5 hot girls way out of my league but it didnt matter. I got so hard it was funny... to keep others from noticing, when i was done dancing with a girl I sorta crouched and danced low or faced a corner for awhile and then faced the crowd again after the hormones had subsided.

The best part was I handled rejection very well, didnt get pissed off, and was social with everyone and having fun the whole night. I think I got along with every dude in the place, and even most of the chicks that rejected me, I still joked around with them and we had a good time. Also several women were a little standoffish to me at first but I was able to convince them to dance with me anyway through my positive persitance and humor. With one of those girls, we both had a blast dancing.

All in all, a great success tonight.


lol @ "I don't care, sure"

Sounds like a ho. Fooooo sho. lmao
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Alright, a few things. Don't ever think that some girl is out of your league, because they're not, and it's a bad attitude to have. Don't feel bad about having a hard on--you're an adult male and that's what we do. Also, don't give this 19-year-old girl credit where credit is not due. She probably thinks dirty thoughts like you do, and she's not any more special than girls your age, so just stop right now about treating her any differently than any random girl.

Otherwise, it seems like you have a great attitude about rejection and having fun no matter what, etc. so keep it up.
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lol, I play paintball competitively, and have never even given consideration to taking a girl on a date to a field. Then again...I would have to play so terribly to let her win haha, she would absolutely know that I was playing down to her, which would probably come off bad.

Why not have her play on your team, then, so you can be like "Shit yeah we kicked their asses! Hey, speaking of asses..."

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You could take her to a bar, it's just that she can't order booze.

Go home and drink!
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