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FM 2347
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Okay, major bitch fest.

During my freshman year in college, I went to a private christian college to study opera performance. I met a person who I thought was funny, attractive, sweet, and sensitive, and ended up dating him. This relationship ended up leaving me emotionally drained and exhausted. I really wish that I had ended the relationship a lot sooner.

For starters, he was a major dork, and by that I mean he was really into gaming, the internet, genmay (he actually introduced me to genmay) pokemon cards, and anime. Don't get me wrong, I like a lot of that too, but it seemed to me like he was taking it way too far, as if he was so cut off from the world that he expected people to interact with each other like they do on genmay or city of heroes.

I was brought up by my mother and grandmother who were two modern day versions of June Cleaver and my dad, who is a big scary russian guy who insisted on politeness and chivalry. Needless to say, I am quite used to being polite and being treated like a lady. Was I ever in for a disappointment . When he first told me to "get in the fucking kitchen and knit him a sandwich" I was shocked to say the least that he found that socially acceptable outside of the internet.

Another thing that seriously bothered me about him ( and about a lot of other "nerds" who spend their lives on the internet and never come out) is that he would use some kind of genmay lingo or internet lingo in conversation that not many people would understand, and would expect other people to understand it. Okay, people, please listen for your own good.

just because people say it on genmay does not mean you can say it in public. THE PUBLIC IS NOT A WEB FORUM!

For the most part, people do not understand the meaning of "gizmo chawp" or "isajeep". He would use these terms with me when we first started to date and would look at me as if I were some kind of idiot if I didn't understand or used any kind of internet or genmay lingo in the wrong context.

Okay, that parts done. Now for the next. He was a bottomless pit of neediness. He told me that he was suffering from post-tramatic stress disorder because an ex he had a while ago would never leave him alone. I've dealt with situations like that before, so I knew that it wasn't fun and probably very stressful, but there comes a point in life where you just need to GET THE HELL OVER IT. He would use this excuse that he was too "emotionally scarred" or "hurting" to ever take the role of a boyfriend who cared for his girlfriend. He would often stand me up for city of heroes or chops in a "legendary thread", and basically ignored me on my birthday (we had been dating for 6 months) until I went to his dorm and guilted him into spending some time with me.

I always had to be there for him. I always had to visit him. I always had to take care of him. I always had to make sacrifices for him. The only times he ever did anything for me is if I outrightly asked him to.

I can't count how many times I sat in his room, skipping class so I could hold his head in my lap because he was crying over this crazy ex girlfriend of his. Over the summer, I spent a boatload of money to fly down to visit him for the San Diego comic con, but ended up jaded again, as he took a job at the pokemon card booth (and was paid with pokemon cards. this guy is 20, wtf?) for most of the day, and really didn't have any time for me.

He broke up with me about two weeks after I came back from Comic Con, (I live in WA, long trip) for reasons I'm still having a hard time figuring out.

about a month after the break up, I added him on my facebook account, and we got to speaking again. We got back togeather for about a month. When we did, he wanted me to act more like a "grown-up", and he said that he would do his best to be a better boyfriend. Yeah right.

It was then that I made a huge mistake.

I drove up to visit him for a weekend in October, and ended up basically having a one night stand with him. We didn't go all the way, but we did have genital/genital contact.

We called often, chatted over AIM often, spoke often in other ways. However, he was not "keeping his end of the deal", so to speak.

about a month later, I had a huge scare that lasted for about 3 months. I had skipped my period two months in a row, and I was terrified that I was pregnant. I was also stressed about school, work,. ect. I tried to call him to let him know, but he wouldn't even listen to what I had to say. A little while later I tried to add him on facebook again, but he lashed out and said that he was "sick of people who didn't know enough to leave him alone."

He was often worried with his nerd activities. He wanted to have a completly authentic vash the stampede costume for the next comic con, he wanted to obtain some swords from final fantasy for his collection. He was worrying about this shit while I was mentally preparing myself to be a mother.

In February I finnally got my period again. whether this was due to simply a skipped period or a miscarriage I don't know.

so, finally, it comes to this. MHZ, you were a horrible boyfriend. You were never there for me when I needed you.

I know you are dating again, and I beg you, take care of your girl. She cares for you so much, and you had better be there for her when she needs you.

okay. rant done.


Now why do girls stick around for fucking pathetic fools like this? He treats you like shit, but you reward him by spending shitloads of money to see him. He's a fucking asshole but you reward him by holding his head for hours while he's depressed? Next HE breaks up with YOU but you reward him by driving hours to see him and have sex with him? It looks like you posted a glorious gem that tells guys how women REALLY want to be treated. Maybe they don't LIKE that treatment but the way this guy treated you seems to be much more effective than what most men in the post feminism craze were taught growing up by their moms and TV.

Reading your post here upsets me because you have all these posts of "nice guys" who want to do the "right" thing for a girl and they get walked all over and then dumped. So there you have it guys, if you want your girl...be charming, funny and attractive...then tell her to make you a sandwich, blow her off for other activities, then dump her like the little bitch she is. After that find a new girl and to hell with the old girl. No flowers, no sympathy, no remorse, just make her do stuff for you and say "fuck you." This is not sarcastic in any way but a special thanks to MHZ for indirectly showing us how to get a girl to fall for you and keep thinking about you forever longing for your dick. louiethecat, I'm not sure what you look like but if you're a really hot girl that every guy wants this even reinforces the idea more. I hardly every write in here but this post got my emotions riled up with a good dose of insight on dealing with women.

Nice guys finish last fellas. Never put the woman first in your life and every kiss does NOT begin with KAY.
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You never think it will happen to you till it does. damnit.
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FM 2347 - girls like louiethecat have to meet that asshole in their lives to really see the spectrum of male behavior. Unless they were raised well, they won't have a basis for comparison to make good judgement calls about men. Some women will stick to assholes their whole lives because they are dumb and enjoy being neglected, but the smart ones wise up and start brushing off those guys.

The good thing is, over a long enough time, those naive nice girls (sometimes) end up getting street smarts about men and a huge appreciation for nice guys, and those "assholes" almost always end up really regretting what they've done at some point. Even Tucker Max, the worlds biggest self proclaimed asshole, wrote about how he has done some horrible shit in the past and regrets it.
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Someone broke into my place last night trashed it and stole a couple items.
You never think it will happen to you till it does. damnit.

what'd they steal and do you think it was someone you know?
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I'm not sure if this is the right place to post this, but it's just sort of a small idea of mine. Would anyone want/be interested in like an Ultimate Breakup thread, I just think it would be interesting and help with threads that are made over and over.
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What happened to the prostrate thread? I am not sure where it was going last I saw it, but it could have been the one educational thread on the front page...
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Old 01-03-2008, 02:32 AM vinnie is offline  
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I've had to accept a failure, i won't go into great detail but I worked on it for several years. It's tough to cut losses and move on from something you're passionate about, but have to because you aren't seeing the results you should.

It's taught me one thing, if you can't be honest with yourself in the business world, you won't get very far.
Old 01-05-2008, 09:38 PM yolo is offline  
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i want to call out the stupid OMGOMGOMGOMG bitch at the mother fucking laundromat.

i dont think anywhere in the entire fucking place does it state that its even a little bit okay touch other people's shit while theyre in the fucking washer. i know, my fucking load is done, ill be there in a second, seriously i only live like 2 blocks away. i cant believe, you, you stupid OMGOMGOMGOMG bitch, has the nerve to ask to be reimbursed for the $0.75 that you put into a dryer thats not even mine after you moved clothes that arent even yours.

you want seventy five fucking cents for putting my clothes in the goddamn dryer, fuck ill give you another 5$ for doing it for me. how about you fucking fork over the 60$ i paid for that dress that i bought JUST LAST WEEK thats not meant to be in the dryer! dont get me started on my LAMB shirts,LINGERE THATS SUPPOSED TO BE HUNG DRY. OH MY GOD. how disrespectful of other people's stuff.


and the stupid OMGOMGOMGOMG bitch had the nerve to say, Oh i thought it was our clothes.

LOOK BITCH, those are size XS thongs from victoria's secret, after youve pulled out the 4th one from the washer, i think you would have gathered that those werent yours because your fat ass would never fit in it, and as much of a tranny fuck your son may be his ass wouldnt fit in them either. YOU DONT KNOW WHAT YOUR OWN FUCKING CLOTHES LOOK LIKE?

i cant believe how pissed off i am. STUPID OMGOMGOMGOMG BITCH.

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Old 01-13-2008, 09:36 PM G-Snake is offline  
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Call out: The Mods

Bans: If you're going to ban someone give a reason, and a link to the offending post. All you have to do is click the little number in the right hand corner it takes about 15 seconds. If you are going to ban someone as a form of deterrence it would help if I actually knew what I did wrong.
"Bullshit post in the BC" does not help. I might make 15 posts, some are serious, some inflammatory, some joking and have no idea what you're actually banning me for, which makes it pretty hard to avoid doing it again in the future.
Take a little time and mod properly.
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Call out: The Mods

Bans: If you're going to ban someone give a reason, and a link to the offending post. All you have to do is click the little number in the right hand corner it takes about 15 seconds. If you are going to ban someone as a form of deterrence it would help if I actually knew what I did wrong.
"Bullshit post in the BC" does not help. I might make 15 posts, some are serious, some inflammatory, some joking and have no idea what you're actually banning me for, which makes it pretty hard to avoid doing it again in the future.
Take a little time and mod properly.

I got a very nice warning in my inbox... perhaps all of your messages are fucking worthless?
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I got a very nice warning in my inbox... perhaps all of your messages are fucking worthless?

and perhaps youre a dupe.
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and perhaps youre a dupe.

If he is, he's using a different IP than his original name.
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I can't stand girls that are overly private with EVERYTHING. She never liked me going into her apartment, would never tell me specific details when I asked questions, seemed to dislike giving me direct answers a lot, would give me a question when I asked her a question. And she wonders why I broke up with her.

If you called someone asking for help to get a new car battery, I think you would tell them the make/model/year without asking "Why do you want to know?". Fucking dumb bitch.

She's the type of girl who always tried to see beyond the surface of a conversation or question/answer. If a woman wants a husband, she should start taking what he says at face value, because that's what trust is. She never trusted me, and that's why I broke up with her.

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LOL BAN!!!1

The rules are so convoluted as to make little sense and some of the moderators seem to be even more confused than the posters.

Reference this thread: http://www.genmay.com/showthread.php?t=771829

Personal insults start getting flung, so I do the normal thing and shoot off a PM. This is the result:
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You were the first one to post off-topic anyways, you're usually a decent poster in the BC but are getting 3-days for this one.

So... I am offtopic for posting, although bombastically for sure, logically in a thread that is against the rules anyhow. But I am generally nice right? Well, the ban log says:
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djfacemachine (26030)   vinnie (2130)  Ban  2008-01-27 21:08:23  2008-01-30 21:00:00  You've been horrible in the BC lately. 3 day ban is per SGT Rob.
Oh, so I have been horrible, hence I am banned. Wait, the PM said I was good... but off topic?

While all this is happening... the thread is locked for not being a BC allowed topic...

Cliffs:
1) I am banned for posting offtopic but am nice in general
2) No wait, I was banned for not being nice
3) Thread was locked for not being an appropiate thread.

I am confused. What did I actually do wrong, there seems to be very conflicting reports? I know which mod not to PM in future I suppose, it was only because he was the one online at the time.
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LOL BAN!!!1

The rules are so convoluted as to make little sense and some of the moderators seem to be even more confused than the posters.

Reference this thread: http://www.genmay.com/showthread.php?t=771829

Personal insults start getting flung, so I do the normal thing and shoot off a PM. This is the result:


So... I am offtopic for posting, although bombastically for sure, logically in a thread that is against the rules anyhow. But I am generally nice right? Well, the ban log says:
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djfacemachine (26030)   vinnie (2130)  Ban  2008-01-27 21:08:23  2008-01-30 21:00:00  You've been horrible in the BC lately. 3 day ban is per SGT Rob.
Oh, so I have been horrible, hence I am banned. Wait, the PM said I was good... but off topic?

While all this is happening... the thread is locked for not being a BC allowed topic...

Cliffs:
1) I am banned for posting offtopic but am nice in general
2) No wait, I was banned for not being nice
3) Thread was locked for not being an appropiate thread.

I am confused. What did I actually do wrong, there seems to be very conflicting reports? I know which mod not to PM in future I suppose, it was only because he was the one online at the time.

you try to cock off in a lot of threads and it serves you right for being a little bitch and pming mods. what is this 3rd grade?
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