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Jesus Christ stop talking to her. Do you realize that you're only making yourself look like a whiny bitch? There is now absolutely zero chance she will get with you if this Nate guy and her don't work out. Congratulations.


If you had taken it like a man from the start, there is always that possibility that she'll give you a call six months down the road.
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Honestly it will be on your terms? Keep telling yourself that while you wait for her. This girl not only whipped you she did it right in front of your face numerous times. My god man the balls need to drop. Give her the axe already.
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Jesus Christ stop talking to her. Do you realize that you're only making yourself look like a whiny bitch? There is now absolutely zero chance she will get with you if this Nate guy and her don't work out. Congratulations.


If you had taken it like a man from the start, there is always that possibility that she'll give you a call six months down the road.

because i sent her a fucking vague one line response? lol ok, no. i may not know relationships but i do know girls well enough to know thats

anyways i did the whole get blasted with friends and rebound vagina last night thing and right now im feeling a lot better about it all and more importantly about ignoring her.

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Didn't read the rest of the thread but...

...she was mind fucking you from the beginning and you're surprised she pulled a stunt like this? You were second string all the time buddy. Only when a better piece of meat wasn't available was she willing to go to you. Don't stand for that . No matter how good looking she is your dignity isn't worth it.
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because i sent her a fucking vague one line response? lol ok, no. i may not know relationships but i do know girls well enough to know thats

anyways i did the whole get blasted with friends and got rebound vagina last night and right now im feeling a lot better about it all and more importantly about ignoring her.

good. next step is to have the self respect and control to move on without chemical aids.
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Fuck that bitch man..damn that pissed me off to read that. I am sorry as hell that guys have to go through this type of . Myself included. Honestly, the way she texted you and acted like it was no big deal would have really sent me to the next level of anger. The only way to keep girls like this around (if you really want to do that to yourself) is have zero emotion around them. This is obviously hard if your heart is into the person. It is an acquired skill really.

You can;t acknowledge they hurt you on myspace..you can't text them every AM ..These are girls that need the excitement and game playing 24/7. I guess this hit me close to home because I am in a situation with a girl that is going really well and I am waiting for the other shoe to drop. I truly hate hearing about this stuff man, I hope you recover fast!
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aei yai yai...NO! She blatantly stated he was a pillar in her life--but the pillar of emotional support. She chose against him, him doing this just makes her realize she REALLY has him on a leash as her little bitch.

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Either don't talk to her, or make her chase you.
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Old 01-30-2008, 09:57 AM Viperoni is offline  
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wow, just wow. this girl strung you along, measured you up with another guy chose the other guy and somehow your still asking what to do? Like others have said how can you respect yourself and have any pride that you were willing to be second best? let her do whatever with this dude then just fall back on you when he left?

What do you think was gonna happen when he came back in 6 months? Ignore him cause shes so in love with you? Come on now this isn't a movie. She threw you on the backburner till she needed you to fall back on, and when he comes home...guess who will be ignoring you again for him. Just have some respect for yourself and cut contact. She played you bad. Not only that but from the text messages you posted above she talks to you condescendingly and its just embarrassing to read.

I know this is another one of those threads where poeple tell you things and you dissagree and get mad at them cause its not what you wanted to hear. But in reality these people are right the ball will never be in your court, and you know that. You would let her walk all over you anytime, just to have contact. You should really think about listening to what people have said, cut contact. she played you. the end.
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Ignore her completely. Delete her number and block her if at all possible. Responding would exacerbate the situation and make you look worse

seriously. i blacklisted my wife on my phone because i'm tired of her shit.
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I've put in exponentially more effort into this girl than anyone else ever before...

This was your mistake, you gave her NOTHING to want/chase after. Getting girls is easy, keeping them is the hard part. The sooner you learn that you have to always keep them chasing you is the sooner you'll have less dissapointment.
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This was your mistake, you gave her NOTHING to want/chase after. Getting girls is easy, keeping them is the hard part. The sooner you learn that you have to always keep them chasing you is the sooner you'll have less dissapointment.

I always see you guys giving this advice on the internet but I've never met a happy person in real life that does this, only the guys that go througha girl every 2 weeks
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I always see you guys giving this advice on the internet but I've never met a happy person in real life that does this, only the guys that go througha girl every 2 weeks

this is true and its what ive always done

if youre only looking to fuck a girl sure thats a good way to go about it but id think if you want to build a real relationship with someone the games need to stop early.
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if you want to build a real relationship with someone the games need to stop early.

this is exactly right. so take your own damn advice and apply it to that tragedy in the OP. she never stopped playing games, is still playing games and WILL NEVER stop playing games. wtf are you hung up on? i realize the wounds are fresh but you really have to replace your rose colored ideal of her in your mind/heart with the cold hard reality of what this chick really is and why you can never and will never have a happy, loving and EQUAL relationship with her. sorry to beat a dead horse but you gotta see how weak you are coming off about this girl.
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Based on her texts and her reaction to your myspace changes, she's pretty smug in the knowledge that you're hers if she wanted you. She may keep poking to keep you interested for when things get uncertain with Nate, but she did choose him for now. Do you really want to be available to her whims later?
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this is exactly right. so take your own damn advice and apply it to that tragedy in the OP. she never stopped playing games, is still playing games and WILL NEVER stop playing games. wtf are you hung up on? i realize the wounds are fresh but you really have to replace your rose colored ideal of her in your mind/heart with the cold hard reality of what this chick really is and why you can never and will never have a happy, loving and EQUAL relationship with her. sorry to beat a dead horse but you gotta see how weak you are coming off about this girl.

im well aware (honestly i always was, i just wanted so badly to believe that my jaded self was being too hard on her), and was just laughing to myself about the many times she said she didn't play games
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