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Push it or what? Really bad night (Funny story though I guess)

So yesterday I was invited by a friend to go to a tavern with cheap beer and really cheap wings. Sounds great. Two of my friends that are invited smoke weed, and I just evened out on my stash so I roll a fat blunt of some potent dank, it was more than enough for 4 people. After I've rolled it, I find out they're not going so I just leave it at home and go to the tavern.

I get there and drink a lot and get a lot of buffalo wings, mmm. All was fine and dandy, so I went out for a smoke. While I'm out there I remember this girl I'm trying to get with who smokes weed. We smoked before, but she needs a lot to actually get high so I figure I'll smoke the fat L with her. I call her up and tell her I'll be back at my place in a couple of hours and see if she wants to smoke. She says yes, good. I go back to the tavern and eventually we pay and leave.

I come back to my building and pick up the blunt, and head to her place (same building). I get there, pretty drunk mind you, and tell her to put on some music. We light up, and chill for a while. I start playing games with her basically just to get her comfortable with my touch and cause it was fun (I was drunk and didn't give a shit if it came off too forward), she ate it up though it seems and was laughing, etc.

Here's where it all went downhill. She went to get me something to drink. She's not there so I'm not focused on anything and the room starts fucking spinning; not good. She comes back, I tell her I'll be right back and go to the bathroom. Not good, not good. I wait there for a minute and start to feel better. I get back and we chat some more because I couldn't really move anymore. I'm too fucked up. What's this? My throat feels funny. Oh no, my stomach feels funny. I fight it and figure it's a burp, so I burp (no not out loud, to myself on the low, I didn't want to be rude). Ahh, some relief.

Wait. Again? She notices something is amiss. "You okay?" I shake my head. "The trashcan is right there." Fuck... here it comes... ahhhhh. I threw up in her trash can. Beer and buffalo wings. Awesome. She respectfully turns around. I start laughing to myself because I'm so fucked up and I can't believe this. I take the trash out and go wash up and wash my mouth out. I come back and things actually settle down, haha. We chat again (almost like nothing happened).

"Are you okay?" "Nah, it's too much." My stomach churns again. "Noooooooooooo," I think to myself, "not again." There's a bag in her trashcan. I take it and release delicious beer and wings into it. From my mouth. Fuck. She's turned around again. She goes and gets me some water. I go to the bathroom. When I get back she's chilling on the balcony. I take the trash out. Again. I come back and sit out the window with her and we chat. "Yeah," "uh-huh," "nah." It's mostly her talking and me agreeing or disagreeing though because I really can't think at the moment. She goes back in because it's chilly and she's wearing something short.

I go back in and lay on the wrong side of her bed. She gets in under the covers on the other side. She asks for one of her plush toys. I joke around with it, then give it to her and we both pass out. I wake up later and she wakes up too. I ask and figure out when we passed out and I get my stuff and leave back to my place. Jump in bed; pass out.



So, should I push it and see her again? I told a friend and he said, "yo, just delete her number from your phone. Now." I figure I should just push it though and see what I can get away with now while I'm young. I got nothing to lose really by trying.

What do you think?

edit: I just got a text from her asking me "How are you?" I responded by saying not well because I have a hangover and told her I was woken up early as well. And, "How about you?"
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Old 07-10-2008, 12:07 PM Mono is offline  
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i'd go for it.
Old 07-10-2008, 12:19 PM tHisFaItH is offline  
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She doesn't seem to turned off by your vomiting the other night it because she texted you first recently. Though she could be a really nice girl and she's just checking up on you to see how you're doin. If you were to try and take it further with her I'd try not to drink as much around her. Personally, most people who drink have a bad night and end up puking so it's not like it's that big of a deal.
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Here's a story for you.

My best friend went home with this one girl after 30 minutes of talking at this party; they had mad chemistry. Sex is great too. He wakes up the next morning naked with her pee all over him. She peed the bed. He takes the fuck off, deletes her number.

Two months later he runs into her at another party. Their chemistry is off the charts. He teases the shit out of her for peeing on him but she handles and he realizes he is over it so they go straight back to her place, again. Sex is incredible. Chat is incredible. The morning after, she's peed on him again. She's obviously mortified beyond belief. He gets the fuck out of there without barely even speaking to her.

Four months later I'm driving around with him and suddenly he sees her in his car and laughs 'The Pee Girl!' He tells me the story up to this point, and he realizes he didn't delete the number the second time around. I tell him to call her. He says no way. I force him to. He calls. There's going to be another party that night. We 'happen' to show up. She 'happens' to be there. In 30 minutes, they've dumped me and gone back to her place. Third time's the charm. They've been dating for over a year now.


Anyways, I can't tell you what to do. All I can tell you is that if you actually like hanging out with this girl you should give it a shot, and be forthcoming about it. Confront it and ridicule and laugh at your own behavior in front of her. Also, you should probably cut back. Seriously.
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Hahaha jkrowling that's rich. Yeah, I guess I'll keep it up.

I am definitely cutting back now though. This is only the second time in my life that I've thrown up. First time, it was the same reason; I drank a lot then toked a blunt. I shouldn't mix them like that anymore. And I'll moderate when I do each on it's own.
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Here's a story for you.

My best friend went home with this one girl after 30 minutes of talking at this party; they had mad chemistry. Sex is great too. He wakes up the next morning naked with her pee all over him. She peed the bed. He takes the fuck off, deletes her number.

Two months later he runs into her at another party. Their chemistry is off the charts. He teases the shit out of her for peeing on him but she handles and he realizes he is over it so they go straight back to her place, again. Sex is incredible. Chat is incredible. The morning after, she's peed on him again. She's obviously mortified beyond belief. He gets the fuck out of there without barely even speaking to her.

Four months later I'm driving around with him and suddenly he sees her in his car and laughs 'The Pee Girl!' He tells me the story up to this point, and he realizes he didn't delete the number the second time around. I tell him to call her. He says no way. I force him to. He calls. There's going to be another party that night. We 'happen' to show up. She 'happens' to be there. In 30 minutes, they've dumped me and gone back to her place. Third time's the charm. They've been dating for over a year now.


Anyways, I can't tell you what to do. All I can tell you is that if you actually like hanging out with this girl you should give it a shot, and be forthcoming about it. Confront it and ridicule and laugh at your own behavior in front of her. Also, you should probably cut back. Seriously.


omfg im seriously dying from laughing at work. gawdDAMN thats the funny right there.
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Do something nice like take her to dinner or something to make up for puking at her place. It seems like she didn't really mind but doing something to make up for it will probably only earn you more points in her book.
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I've been in similar situations. I say fuck it, just go for it, what's the worst that could happen?

fake edit: I feel like I'm the only one that rarely if ever gets the spins after I've drank a lot and smoked green. It's only ever happened once and that was a few years ago. That night resulted in a story sort of similar to yours and me spraying puke all over the inside of a friend's car. Not my best moment.
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Why would you delete her number? If anything it would be her deleting your number, if she wants to see you again, definitely go for it. She's seen you more or less at your worst now, so if she's still interested, you know she's really into you. If she responds, then yeah, "push it"
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Go for it. See what happens. Apologize, but don't keep coming back to it. Make up for it, and forget it... and move on with it.
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I agree with dominion. Besides, everyone has bad nights. She clearly wasn't acting as your babysitter during the ordeal (out on the deck, etc). Having to be a drunk persons babysitter is a real annoyance and thats the only reason I would ever think less of someone who acted as you did. But by the sounds of it she just let you do your thing, so I think you are good to go. Just apologize and then never speak of it again!
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Oh yeah, I'd follow it up.

First of all, we're all human. Second of all, which is an extension to the first point, I bet the chick you were with has thrown up at least once in her life from alcohol. Unless she's stuck-up or unreasonable, she can't really permanently negatively judge you from it. Especially if you're usually a cool, functional guy.

And third point, (I smoke pot, too) any chick who's down to smoke pot (especially in blunt form) is a-okay in my book. I bet she's partied hard a few times, and is open-minded, chill and forgiving.

So maybe smoke her out again soon, but this time do it on a nice hot, sunny day. Maybe have a few quality beers around and casually drink em with her. Bet you sparks would fly.
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give her a call. shes smokes so shes probably not that uptight and understands the fatal error you made. never get blazed when youre already trashed, thats just begging to spin out.
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I say if she let you stay the night (when kicking you out isnt a big deal because you live in the same building) she probably didnt mind all that much
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