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so i am 19 and ive never had a gf, should i be worried?

so i came into work day before yesterday pretty happy cus the mets finally broke out of their losing streak (not really) and one of the co-workers said did you get laid last night or something because you are happy as shit. i said i don't have a gf and never had on. well this is when i started thinking am i like socially awkward or some shit? but the thing is i am just the average run of the mill guy in college, i am not overweight or nothing, im 6'2 and i used to play soccer etc so i am not sure its a physical thing either. i am not really a shy guy either or a weirdo cus i say funny shit all the time, people laugh and stuff, you know the usual class joker type of deal. well i am going back to school in a few weeks, and i am just scared people are starting to think i am socially awkward or something. which i am not because i have alot of friends, etc. now some people think i am gay, and i definately am not. even my mom has dropped hints saying maybe i am gay or something. shits just becoming way to real and freaky lately with these hints from people. should i be concerned that i am 19 and never had a girl or something. i just don't fucking know anymore
Old 07-01-2008, 10:02 PM jaredballer is offline  
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Don't sweat it. Getting a girlfriend just to appease the people around you is not a good reason.
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Old 07-01-2008, 10:13 PM ThaOre0 is offline  
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Well, don't volunteer the fact that you've never had a girlfriend. Anyways, it's nothing to be embarrassed about--you should never want to have a girlfriend just to appease people.
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Old 07-01-2008, 10:18 PM zro is offline  
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well it's more or less concerning me as well, i am pretty sure going 19 years without a gf is not normal (i think). i am just a regular guy so i am just trying to find out wtf is wrong with me so i don't end up socially inept and become one of those crazy people on the streets or like a serial killer or someshit like that
Old 07-01-2008, 10:18 PM jaredballer is offline  
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Depends whether you have had a boyfriend or not. If so, then there is no drama. If not, well, you may be heading towards problem areas. As you get older, women develop expectations of things you can only really pick up through experience. Missing the experience whilst you have the chance will cripple you for life.

I had a fucking steep learning curve this last year and it had a few rough moment. I would suggest getting practice in whilst young to avoid problems later in life. Even if you need to treat it like practice, knock yourself out. Getting a few short term relationships in is a start.
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Old 07-01-2008, 10:20 PM vinnie is offline  
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you are fine, it doesn't matter.
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Old 07-01-2008, 10:21 PM Rizen is offline  
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Nope not at all. Been there done that. Let them say what they like. If you really feel like something is wrong with you feel free to pm me or something. I had parents (dad) think i was gay too because i had friends but never a gf. Not to talk shit about gay guys or anything but that is a terrible thing to have your parents assume if you're not gay. It feels really demeaning. I'm 22 now and have had my fair share of relationships. In a girl's room right now actually....
Old 07-01-2008, 10:21 PM holycarp is offline  
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I wasn't interested in dating until after I turned 20. Now I'm 25 and getting married next year. I think you're fine. If you want to date, get on it. If not, don't worry about it.
Old 07-01-2008, 10:21 PM Gibonius is offline  
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Lol jesus vinnie. Give the guy a break.
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Lol jesus vinnie. Give the guy a break.
I had to go through a lot of women to learn about this whole dating thing, I want to save him the trouble. It is my role, my job, nay my very mission. If I can save one person from having to fuck a tubby chick, I have done my duty!
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Old 07-01-2008, 10:25 PM vinnie is offline  
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No worries mang. My first "real" gf was when I was 18, I'm fine. Going on a 3+ year relationship now... nothing to worry about.
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Old 07-01-2008, 10:26 PM [Entropy] is offline  
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thanks guys, well what really concerned me was when i told my mom i was going to a game with my bros she said why do you never go with girls, i said mom its a baseball game, and then she proceeded to ask me if the people i was going were gay. i was like what the fuck are you serious women, they have gfs and its a game of baseball...

yeah that really ticked me off
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Old 07-01-2008, 10:28 PM jaredballer is offline  
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My first real relationship was when i was 18...worst thing i've ever done. Looking back, i was really only interested in having a gf because i was 18 and never had a gf. And it's easy to pick up a desperate girl...

Point is, if you rush these things, you will only come to regret it. It's hard to define your standards and keep to them, but you'll feel worse down the road if you abandon your standards and realize what a terrible decision you've made. Think long and hard about what is most important in your life and what is most important in a gf.

Best of luck.
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My first real relationship was when i was 18...worst thing i've ever done. Looking back, i was really only interested in having a gf because i was 18 and never had a gf. And it's easy to pick up a desperate girl...

Point is, if you rush these things, you will only come to regret it. It's hard to define your standards and keep to them, but you'll feel worse down the road if you abandon your standards and realize what a terrible decision you've made. Think long and hard about what is most important in your life and what is most important in a gf.

Best of luck.

thanks man, i'll try but its kinda hard because all my friends have been going out with chicks since they was like 13 or 14, now i think they are kinda shocked and wondering what the hell is going on with me

oh yeah, i never went to my junior or senior prom (just didn't care)
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Old 07-01-2008, 10:37 PM jaredballer is offline  
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If I can save one person from having to fuck a tubby chick

isn't that a rite of passage? that's what i told myself
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