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As gay as it sounds..I feel like dead inside, just crushed. She said that I would always have a place in her heart, but I feel like she was my heart..Ive never felt these emotions before..and since I havent..I dont know how to cope.

It's going to take a while to get past that stage, but it will happen, and you will be able to look back on things and realize that you're much better off. It might help if you can find someone you trust to talk to about it all, just to get things off your chest when you need to. Maybe your stepdad can help you with that??
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Old 07-13-2008, 09:32 PM g|aSsJaw is offline  
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There is no other guy..I know that for a fact. Shes not the type to do that. .

You'll get over it.

And yes, there's another guy. Everyone thinks "NOT MY MARY, SHE'D NEVER DO THAT", yet people cheat every day, people find other people they're more attracted to. Face facts, move on, yell at her, get drunk, go fuck some girl if that'll help you, but she's already moved on, now it's your turn.
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There is no other guy..I know that for a fact. Shes not the type to do that. I talked to my stepdad about it and he just said that he honestly never felt it was a match and that sooner or later Ill be able to look at the situation from an objective point of view. Shes the type of girl who wants that benz and the huge house in the hills and all the toys, but Ive grown to be the type to just enjoy life for what it is. The last year Ive sort of focused on what makes me happy whether or not it pays well. I film skateboarding and make shit money, but Its not like Im some loser..I also hold down a full time job. Ive grown to notice Im not one of those people that needs money or material things to be happy...

As gay as it sounds..I feel like dead inside, just crushed. She said that I would always have a place in her heart, but I feel like she was my heart..Ive never felt these emotions before..and since I havent..I dont know how to cope.

if it's really eating you up, ask her for a more detailed explaination however it's like wanting to know how your grandmother died. For some reason you want to know but in the end it won't change a damn thing, grandma's gone, and there's nothing you can do about it other than move on.
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Old 07-13-2008, 11:01 PM AbortTheFetus is offline  
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it really is truly immaterial why she's moved on, she doesn't want to be with you, actually accept it in and put her out of your life & thoughts
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I'm not going to read every post in here but I will say this,


If, after 4 years she's leaving you, and you don't know why, or it comes as a shock that could be part of the problem.


Like myself, I failed to read between the lines, and "listen" when she had something to say. You heard about it I am sure, and the more you think about it the more you'll realize that she did or said something, or gave small clues as to how she felt long before she told you she was leaving.


Get some closure, move on, find a new hobby, jog, anything, to get your mind off her.
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I would refrain from contacting her or getting angry at her like some have said. There's nothing to be gained from that and you'll look like a desperate fool.

Instead, focus that energy into something positive for yourself so later on you can truly say that you are a better person now then you were after she left you.
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Old 07-14-2008, 10:57 AM Doctor Octagon is offline  
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The more i read everyone here saying there's another guy, the more I believe it. OP - everyone here is probably right.

Plus, she sounds like she has different goals in life. In her eyes (and yours admittedly) you don't have the same goals. That kind of difference of goals is a huge chasm to overcome, and would have most likely forced your relationship into shit-hole eventually.
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it'll be fine man.

I've gone through that shit a few times.

You always find someone else better.

Just give it time, you'll see.

Go hang out with your friends man
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There is no other guy..I know that for a fact. Shes not the type to do that.

You also probably didn't think she'd be the type to break up with you out of the blue...

Honestly, if someone leaves you and you don't know why, you really don't know them well enough to say "[they're] not the type to do that."
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There's probably another guy in Colorado. Her blaming the split up on you is a nice red flag that she knows what she's doing is wrong but wants to get away guilt-free. Typical woman BS.

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reflect on past conversations you have had with her. Chances are the writing was on the wall long before she told you. like the previous posters said chalk this up to learning experience and try your best to move on and find a better situation.
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She took off last saturday..why would she tell me she wants to keep in contact? I mean, of course I want to RIGHT NOW, but logically no I dont want to keep contact. It only makes it harder.
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She took off last saturday..why would she tell me she wants to keep in contact? I mean, of course I want to RIGHT NOW, but logically no I dont want to keep contact. It only makes it harder.

She wants to keep in contact with you because you are easily used as an emotional tampon, and if the guy she has in CO doesn't work out, she can swing right back onto the branch she was on before.

Don't let her.
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