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how come chicks are so fickle?

Alright so ive known this chicks for 3 years right and were best friends. About once a month i go over to her house to hang out and she ALWAYS cuddles up with me and holds me and that kidna shit, but get this. SHE WONT GO OUT WITH ME. she wont have anything to do with me beyond friendship. Ok so i go over there this monday and the same shit happens but this time she says SHE LOVES ME, and it wasnt ohh your my best friend i love you type thing. Of course i say it back you know cuz i want her you know but then on tuesday she says she doen\snt want to go out cuz she doesnt wanna ruin our friendship WTF!?! any one got any advice in getting her to take a risk?




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Old 01-18-2003, 11:14 AM dethwing is offline  
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face it you are her cuddle bitch
Old 01-18-2003, 11:15 AM Onnotangu is offline  
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tell her that she can't cuddle you and what not unless she's gonna go out with you because by her doing this, she's ruining the friendship.
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fuck her friends, hard. shes a stupid bitch and should be shit on the rest of her life.
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fuck her friends, hard. shes a stupid bitch and should be shit on the rest of her life.
ROFL i agree but then i dont cuz i want her, fuckin females

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i cant stand girls that are like that. you get to be their emotional boyfriend while they fuck someone else. yea, what a prize. its like a girl i know who is always lecturing me on my sex life. shes like "why dont you ever fuck any nice girls?". so i tell her that its her fault i fuck sluts, because she isnt fucking me.
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fuck her friends, hard.
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I say totally stop doing the flirty stuff with her if she's gonna play hard-to-get. If she tries to hug you, step away. If she says something flirty to you, ignore it. If she really wants you, she'll realize she has to stop being so "fickle."
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Well, I had a friend that treated me similar... She would come over and hang out, but never actually go out with me.. So I finally tell her, look, it's always gonna keep coming back to me asking you out. Since you want go out with me, I don't want any more contact with you. Well, she said to me "friendship is stronger than that." and kept writing me and trying to contact me. I didn't relent and kept ignoring her. Finally she called me and asked me to take her to see The Two towers. So basically she asked me to take her out. So I did. She inisisted on paying her own way, which I was kinda irritated about, but our relationship has changed somewhat since then. It's like all the tension is gone between us now. She's not really fighting me any more and I can inally be myself around her.

So I say take the risk. Tell your girl "I want to be more than friends. If that's not what you want, then I'm going to have to break off everything because I care for you too deeply to continue like we are.
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fuck her friends, hard. shes a stupid bitch and should be shit on the rest of her life.
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So I say take the risk. Tell your girl "I want to be more than friends. If that's not what you want, then I'm going to have to break off everything because I care for you too deeply to continue like we are.
this is exactly what you gotta do dude. she says she doesnt want to ruin the friendship? dude its already ruined, your her cuddle bitch... thats the worst spot to be in.... its almost impossible to get off that ladder
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So I say take the risk. Tell your girl "I want to be more than friends. If that's not what you want, then I'm going to have to break off everything because I care for you too deeply to continue like we are.
this kinda doesn't work if you actually care about her. this happened to me recently. one of my best female friends was very emotionally dependant on me. i was her cuddle bitch. i really wanted her, but she didn't want more than friendship. basically we got to the ultimatum point, where either we had to be more than friends or i had to cut her off completely. basically, this backed her into a corner. indeed, my emotional support was important enough to her that she relented, and we're now together. however, she's not all that into it and it goes back and forth, which makes it very hard on me. basically, it's not a very satisfying relationship, basically she's letting me hook up with her instead of wanting to hook up with me. the two are very different. so, from personal experience, i can't really reccomend this, although we are still trying to make it work. clearly she wants to like me, and sometimes she is into it, but a lot of times she's not, and she's depressed a lot which also adds to it, so it's basically a big fucked up situation that mostly sucks. so yeah. that's my story.
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shit i just delivered the damn ultimatum
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shit i just delivered the damn ultimatum
Good luck dude.. I'm giving my ex her ultimantum today, too.. Ironically, 6 months (to the day) that it'd be 3 years we would've been together... I posted a thread awhile back asking what I should do about it. I somewhat ignored the advice and I've found myself in an endless loop of being "friends", then the next day "more than friends" then the next day she's not even around to talk to...

I love'r very much, and I'd kill to be with her, but if she's going to play me like she is, then fuck it.. not worth getting myself all destroyed because she can't decide whether she wants to be comitted or run around with her friends all the time.

Good luck dude.. hope it works out.
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shit i just delivered the damn ultimatum
by email? not so good... umm. let's see. you'll probably get rejected. if not, then CONGRATS!
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