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mainbrotha
 
Don't read anything into the situation past the fact that you two want to meet up and have sex at this point. The relationship that could ensue afterwards is an afterthought.

Play it cool, play it smart, and see where things take you two. And definitely do not put your dating situation on hold just for her right now.
Old 11-24-2010, 11:21 PM mainbrotha is offline  
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What is everyone else thinking? Don't do it.

You don't deserve to date/spend time with crazy woman who have feelings for you from 20 years ago when you were just children...

Why add stress and craziness to your life? Calmly tell her you don't think its right and that you shouldn't meet up. Find someone good whom you can spend some time with. It sounds to me like you are just looking for someone, anyone, and are not willing to get out of your shell and meet new woman.

Live risky, live well.
Old 11-24-2010, 11:59 PM thescapeman is offline  
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Can't wait for an update on this one.
Old 11-25-2010, 08:34 PM Pigs is offline  
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you owe her the maturity of being an adult about all of this and saying that the reason your history came up is because it is trying to tell her about the way she handles relationships. if you really want to pursue this, make sure there is a clean break on her end. if there is any chance of her making her marriage work out (and that what she is saying isn't all drama) I would encourage her to. You just need to tread lightly about it and to see and feel out whether she is sincere about having never truly given up for you. Who knows, this could have a nice ending, but the general consensus here is proceed with caution and listen to your instincts. If it doesn't feel right, then don't do it.
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Andy - your response was exactly what I got from my best friend.
mainbrotha - my stepfather told me if I didn't go up and fuck her I was a fool...

We'll see... I'm still communicating with her every day. I'm definitely trying to temper the situation with logic.
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I dont have much to say other than that its been 20 years and shes married now. No one should have to remind you that investing any portion of yourself and your emotions in this potential affair would be... whats a more derogatory term for unwise? oh yeah, fucking stupid

that being said... dot foldered for update
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Old 11-26-2010, 06:59 PM Golf(e) is offline  
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I'm still communicating with her every day. I'm definitely trying to temper the situation with logic.


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Old 11-27-2010, 08:35 PM AncientMarinade is offline  
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So watch, the loveless husband ends up following her for shits and giggles and kills them both, Shawshank style.
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I dont have much to say other than that its been 20 years and shes married now. No one should have to remind you that investing any portion of yourself and your emotions in this potential affair would be... whats a more derogatory term for unwise? oh yeah, fucking stupid

that being said... dot foldered for update
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Old 12-01-2010, 03:42 PM RedEyes is offline  
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And yes, I happen to be an excessively bitter person that holds on to things.


What? Only because you wanted to send a spiteful message on facebook 20 FUCKING YEARS after she dumped you?

/facepalm


This will not end well, I'm sure of it.
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What? Only because you wanted to send a spiteful message on facebook 20 FUCKING YEARS after she dumped you?

/facepalm


This will not end well, I'm sure of it.

This is why Facebook is a terrible, terrible force.
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This is why Facebook is a terrible, terrible force.
Facebook didn't make this thread.
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Facebook didn't make this thread.

It is partly responsible
Old 12-03-2010, 09:13 PM Gabbo is offline  
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It is partly responsible

DAMN YOU FACEBOOK!!!! I'll get you back someday!
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Hump her and run...both of you seem unstable to me
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