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Fool me once, shame on you, fool me twice, shame on me.

Move on, things like this don't just fix themselves because she got lonely/scared or the guy she wanted to go out with over you shot her down.

Move on.

Well said.


To the OP, you're going to end up getting hurt again if you give in to your emotions. It will only be a matter of time before something else comes up to drive you apart again.
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Old 03-30-2007, 04:25 AM Burner27 is offline  
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Don't do it man. Let her stew in it. If she gets exactly what she wants regardless of what she does to you, she'll never learn. You two are done, and if you get back together with her, she'll pull the same stunts, because she knows she can. She has no incentive to get better if there is indeed anything wrong with her and she's not just jerking you around with them as excuses.

Let her suffer the consequences of her actions, which is that you are gone. That's the best thing for both of you.
Old 03-30-2007, 04:55 AM Namrok is offline  
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Well.. things just took a turn for the fucked up..

She wants to get back together.. she says she didn't mean it when she said she didn't love me - she was just 'confused'. She says she loves me and misses me like hell.

I left some important stuff out which may be relevant to the situation at hand.. she's been going through bouts of clinical depression and has had anxiety disorder for several years. She says she got scared that we wouldn't work out and just had to push me away so she would stop hurting me - she needed to focus on herself and be happy with herself before she could be happy with me. She will be going to a day-time clinic for two weeks to help her sort shit out.

I don't know what to do. Part of me wants to try again and the other part of me is completely with you guys.. just drop the matter and move on to the next stage of my life. I can't help but feel that if both of us feel the same way about each other.. both of us crying ourselves to sleep and missing each other like hell.. that we do still have something left and that it can be salvaged. She feels like shit for 'breaking up' over the phone and for causing me all of the hurt that came along with it.. I can't forgive her for what she did to me in the past few days.. but I love her so fucking deeply that it almost doesn't even matter.

I'm so fucking confused.. I feel like some emo highschool kid again.

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Don't do it man. Let her stew in it. If she gets exactly what she wants regardless of what she does to you, she'll never learn. You two are done, and if you get back together with her, she'll pull the same stunts, because she knows she can. She has no incentive to get better if there is indeed anything wrong with her and she's not just jerking you around with them as excuses.

Let her suffer the consequences of her actions, which is that you are gone. That's the best thing for both of you.

She probably does miss you like Hell.
I'm not going to try to tell you what to do now, because Namrok is telling you to do the same thing that my most recent ex has done for me. And I think I know how she feels. Even though I'm not fickle enough to cheat or have enough money to own an xbox as my way to do so.
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She probably does miss you like Hell.
I'm not going to try to tell you what to do now, because Namrok is telling you to do the same thing that my most recent ex has done for me. And I think I know how she feels. Even though I'm not fickle enough to cheat or have enough money to own an xbox as my way to do so.

Not sure how your relationship ended, but cheating is a pretty clear cut wrong and a good reason to cut someone off for good. Whether she misses him or not is really beside the point. Of course she mises him, they were together for a long time. Doesn't mean she deserves him back. Merely feeling a certain way does not entitle you to the object of your affection. Thats just immature emotional selfishness. The girl blew it.
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haven't read further than maybe the first 10 replies, but im just dropping in to say im sorry about your shitty situation, and best of luck in getting over it.

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Things didn't go well with her new potential boyfriend so she's back to you until she finds someone else.

There's some monkey theory about that which I don't remember.
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Old 03-30-2007, 06:40 AM Bunghole is offline  
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Things didn't go well with her new potential boyfriend so she's back to you until she finds someone else.

There's some monkey theory about that which I don't remember.

Theory : Women are like monkeys, they never let go of one branch before they have a firm grip on another.
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Not sure how your relationship ended, but cheating is a pretty clear cut wrong and a good reason to cut someone off for good. Whether she misses him or not is really beside the point. Of course she mises him, they were together for a long time. Doesn't mean she deserves him back. Merely feeling a certain way does not entitle you to the object of your affection. Thats just immature emotional selfishness. The girl blew it.

It definitely wasn't because I cheated...
He was my world. Pretty much.
Just a bunch of small issues that he thinks are irreconcilable.

You have a point, I guess.
I am immature, emotional, and selfish.

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It definitely wasn't because I cheated...
He was my world. Pretty much.
Just a bunch of small issues that he thinks are irreconcilable.

You have a point, I guess.
I am immature, emotional, and selfish.


Well, I was speaking more towards his situation and his ex. No clue about yours. We might be telling him to do the same thing that your ex is doing to you that is hurting, but it should be obvious that in his case, she deserves it.
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You have an excellent point.



EDIT: fucking women desecrating video game systems.
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