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Another Ask A Gay Man Anything

I was very impressed with the knowledge of the first Ask a Gay Man Anything, so I chose to make another thread, but this time with my input.

If I repeat any answers or anything forgive me.


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James Crivellone -
Are u into BDSM?
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A little bit. PM me if you want details


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barnaby-
Now, indecision, I have a question for you.. when did you find out that you were gay, and in your own personal opinion is being gay genetic, or the result of some kind of life altering event (which alot of psychologist tend to believe), like having an over bearing mother, etc..
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I think it is short-circuit someplace, a genetic mutation of sorts. The testosterone flows for a different scent, a different look, a different feel than the previous generation. Environment might have an effect on the mutation, but I think a majority of the cases of homosexuality are based on genetics. I think there might be conditions where a traumatic event during development as a child could trigger a similar event, though.


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sanjay -
Personal question feel free to not respond to any or all:

How is sex initially consummated-- oral, manual?
How does one work up to anal-- finger, device, or straight ramming?
Do both partners do the same things to each other or are there roles?
How do you learn what to do-- magazines, videos, peers, books?
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Names work first ;-). Actually, with me, it has been manual, then oral, then very rarely anal in that order
I have used just the digital manipulation prior to plunging or recieving, but I would be open to a device (no pun intended, well maybe).
In my experience, partners did the same things, just at different times. Sometimes I am on top, sometimes not. I know of some relationships where there is a distinct one way situation, but I don't think that is for me.
All of the above! Mainly videos. I also learned using hands-on experience. College is a wonderful thing!


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sanjay-
Are there really things like hankie codes and shit that y'all use to flag each other?

what are the secret signs *wink wink*? upside down fuschia triangles?
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Everyone knows about the gratuitous use of the rainbow for a gay symbol, but only lately have I discovered the use of the fuschia triangle. I guess I was just out of the loop.
I have seen web pages with definitions of the hankies, but I have not seen them in action before.



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barnaby -
have EITHER of you been with a girl b4?
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No I haven't. I think I might have had a chance with this really hot woman, but I respectfully declined and instead gave her a really nice massage. I think she liked that better.



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masamune-
I have a question. Do you have a gay sounding voice? The gay people I've met in real life and seen on TV have a gay sounding voice. Do you pick that up when you realize you're gay, or do you have it your whole life? Why do they sound like that? I don't think anyone except gays talk like that.

Also, do you act really gay like Richard Simmons or anything? What makes some gay people act like that?
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My voice is a little high, but I am short, so I blame that, not sexual preference. No lisp or anything, though. And when I talk about water-cooled VRod horsepower, gayness seems to be eliminate ;-)
I think the more effeminate you are, the more characteristics you have to that sex. Higher voice would be one of them. A great fashion sense would be another!
I have heard guys that have kids with their wife that talk gayier (is that a word?) than Tiny Tim. So I think that generalization isn't the most secure.
Gay people that feel liberated want others to feel as well as they do, so the flamboyancy erupts. I don't feel that liberated, so no flaming of me. Besides, I can't go out with my friends for a drink at the local watering hole with crushed velvet and weak wrists.



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barnaby-
(About having sex with women) So I guess it would be the same as trying to have sex with a guy you werent' really attracted to then? or is it more of the different body parts?
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That's exactly it on both counts. I personally don't care for the female genitalia and I just don't feel anything for them.
I had a woman feeling me up, but to no avail. When my boyfriend joined in later, marines couldn't get at attention faster!!!



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RemisGodly-

1. what makes it appealing to you to stick your dick in another guys asshole?
2. why dont you understand that a penis is SUPPOSED to go into a vagina for reproduction? and thats why you have a penis
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The sticking of dicks is not what it is about. Is sticking a vagina all it is about with you and a woman? With the people we love we do stuff that feels good. Prostate stimulation is one of those things. But I have had boyfriends that I never had anal sex with. It is different to different people.
I do understand that a penis is for procreation. But read up above. A genetic mutation that instructs me to men prevents me from procreating. From a purely biological standpoint, I am a scurge of resources on this planet because I don't reproduce, but would you say the same for celebate ministers?
I guess I could find a woman, fuck her to pregancy and that would be the end of it but that would be difficult if I couldn't get it up because women don't excite me.


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Stylerod -
Why do you think that "random" sex is so popular in the gay community?
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In a gay relationship, you have 2 people driven by testosterone to fuck. If you are in the mood to fuck, it isn't too hard to find someone in the same frame of mind as you.



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mkcq -

What do you think of the hardcore exhibitionist type homosexuals? , do you think it harms or aids society’s views of gays?
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If viewers of these people take back a harmful image of that type of person, then yeah it is damaging. I think flamers are funny. They are really fun to be around, at a distance of course!
I also think it is damaging to see younger people in clubs like the Stud Club to have sex with as many women as possible. This is negative in my view, but it might not be for you. Would that be damaging society's views or just mine?


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Cranberrie -
do you miss the boobies ever?
you dont like boobs?
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Not preferably. I don't care for women in that way, so I guess that would include the boobs. I don't miss them, either. Well, manboobs are too bad (go Steve!!!).



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metabolite -
As a gay, do you believe in legal marriage or just life partners?
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I am a hopeless romantic, thinking that there is someone for everyone and if those people find each other, marriage is the perfect way to consumate that relationship. If they are really into each other, they will be life partners already, but it would be nice for the state to recognize that relationship.


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masamune -
If you were in a relationship with another guy and he dressed like a woman, and looked like a woman, would you be turned off?

What if you were in a relationship with someone who you thought was a man, but was really a very manly woman?

And finally, does looking at naked women disgust you?
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I would be turned off a little bit. If I wanted to date a woman I would. I have met drag queens and even everyday cross-dressers, but they don't interest me the same way a strapping stud does.
I would explain the fact (most likely in the bedroom when I found out) that I am gay and that I wasn't interested. Chances are good she didn't know I was gay and that would be the end of that.
Naked women do not disgust me, but looking at a porno in public does, gay or str8. Women are beautiful. Naked women have more for you to see of their beauty. That doesn't mean it floats my boat. It's like looking at a naked male model and saying, "Very nicely developed glutius(sp?)".



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shima -
if a girl asked you to fuck would u fuck her?
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She did and I said no. I still would say no, although I am getting more and more curious.
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jkoebel -
When did you decide your orientation-was it always how it was, or did you at some point along decide, WTF, and change?
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I found out when we had to write a paper in the 4th grade (so 10 yo) about athletics. Most people were writing about football and baseball and going to see games and playing them with friends. I wrote about how the athlete struggles with his or her body to achieve perfection in performance through the sweat glistening off of their bodies and the strain on their muscles. The rest goes on. After I reread it (after it had been graded) I knew I was different. By the way I got the highest grade in the class on that assignment!
I would always catch peeks in 7tha dn 8th grade in the lockerrooms, too, so that was a kind of giveaway;-)


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masamune -
Do you guys like shopping, home decorating, reading magazines like Cosmo, hair salons, etc? These seem to be popular with women and I guess are stereotyped onto gay people.

What do you guys think of Backstreet Boys and Nsync?

Do you like to see guys wear tight clothes the same way straight men like to see women in tight clothes?
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I can respect what I can see on shows on the Home and Garden network, but my own place looks a sterile in the decorating department as a hospital. I get my hair cut at a barber, so hanging out there to discuss gossip for the week is out of the picture ;-)
I can respect NSync's talent and hardwork, but I prefer Fear Factory, Pantera, things like that. New Metallica sucks ass! (and not in a good way ;-))
I love men in tight clothes, especially with a little bit of muscle showing through. Very attractive to me. Tight jeans definite plus, but they are akward to remove ;-)


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Firestarter -
I have a question too, I think one of my best friends is gay, how could I possibly seriously ask him without hurting him?
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Just ask him. I wish more people would ask me so I didn't assume the worst and guess that they would still accept me after I tell them.



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masamune -
Have you guys seen the TV show "Will and Grace"? Do you think the two gay guys on the show are acurate representations of gays?

Can you relate, mentally, more with women or with straight men?

What do you think of the movie "Divine Secrets of the YaYa Sisterhood"?

How deep are your voices? Are they deep like Barry White, or just average, or maybe on the higher end?

Do you use many shampoos, conditioners, creams, lotions, etc? :P

How many pairs of shoes do you own?

Do you care about your weight? If not, then how much do you weigh?

Have you ever been in a situation where you thought, "Man! This is too gay for me!" For example: If you were in a gay bar, and Richard Simmons came in and started dancing and acting like he normally does.
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They are a good example of 2 unique characters that happen to be gay, yes! Every gay person is different (like every strr8 person). They do a fair job with the extremes if that is what you are asking.
I think I relate with str8 men more as those are the people I am around the most with. I can't relate to a woman's time of the month, or hormone imbalances, or pregancy worries, or bra sizes, but I can hold a conversation with a car buff for a while talking about Harley's and such.
I have not seen that movie yet, so I don't know.
I think you asked that before, but my voice isn't the lowest. I would say similar to Billy Corgan of Smashing Pumpkins when he is talking in an interview. No lisp though.
Nope, just the cheapest shampoo in the store.
7, but bowling shoes and shower sandles probably don't count, so 5.
Yeah I care a little. I care enough to watch what I eat and eat and drink in some moderation. I am not anorexic or anything. Just enough to keep in shape.
Yes I have. Those events that do open up my eyes are usually found in a very str8 place and something just strikes differently and looks a little bit questionable. "Man this is gay" (for a str8 place) more like it.



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chimney -
my question is;
do you're parents know?
is so, how did they take it?
if not, how do you THINK they would take it?
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My parents know, but it was more of an educated guess on their part confirmed by me. They don't like it and ignore that whole side of me. They continue on like nothing happened and if that is the way they want to deal with it, I can obliged them and neglect to inform them of boyfriends I have and whatnot.



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mango008 -
Can you just pick out a Gay person from a pack of people just by looking? Is there a standard of how gay people act or look?

But do you find it (can't think of a better word but,) wierd/odd seeing some other gay people acting kinda girlish? Not the over board SNL kinda gay girlish, hell.. I even find it stuipd how they make fun of gay people..
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I must have the worst gaydar for a gay man ever. I can't find a gay person at a pride event ;-) Well maybe I could then...
I think I can't see gay people that well because I know I am not what you would expect to find in a gay man and so I am looking for something different. I don't think there is a standard, but shirts with rainbow and triangles painted on would be a sign.
I think it is a little odd, maybe I mean out of place. I don't dislike it, but I don't like being in a relationship where people stare at us because he is a little bit flaming. I don't care for the flamers so I find them a little odd.



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Cafone -
How did your parents react?
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See above. They behaved as expected.



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Jennipher -
So, I know this might be a little .... wrong, but would any of you guys lick up your own cum off of your partners chest or wherever?
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Yeah I would. I lose the desire to like myself afterward, but that special someone, I would. The kiss afterward is the best, though. You know you have a quality guy that is into you if he does that.



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wonko99 -
So who here is a "pitcher" and who is a "catcher"?
Or do you play offense and defense?

In other words: Who takes it up the chute and who only gives it?

???

And what happens when you have the runs???
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I am both, but I would like to meet a more dominate person. But that is just me. Everyone is different and has different tastes (no pun intended).
Never happened, so I don't know. If I know I am going to have sex one night (it happens very infrequently) with my boyfriend past, I would give myself a very thorough shower to assure proper cleanliness, so no runs.



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Jennipher -
Umm, how old are you?

And as a gay person, how do you feel when people say "I'm Bi". Do you think they are just saying that to cause a scene and get attention and won't really go all out with it, or do you beleive them?
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I don't think they say that to get attention and if they do, not all of the attention they would recieve would be good so they are making a little gamble. The bi people I know are legit so I don't really have a frame of reference...



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Cole -
How nerve racking was it the first time you came out to a guy that you were attracted to?
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Very, but the guy was str8 and there was no way it was going anywhere. He is still a really good friend, and I am still interested in him, but since I am in his wedding party, I don't think anything is going to happen anytime soon ;-)



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chimney -
what do other people drink?
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I started with shots of Jack and Absolute, but I have been slowly moving to beer like Guiness or Irish Red. No mixed drinks or wine coolers thank you!



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Jennipher
Like, if it were at all possible, would any of you gay guys possibly even HAVE a 3some with say Me and another guy from here?

I mean, just...maybe not me, but a girl who you thought was pretty.
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If I got the names first, that is a step in the right direction ;-)
I think I would consider it, but don't look for it anytime soon! Besides, you are too far away for me! ;-)


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[A]MD -
With Anal sex, doesn't poop get on your cock? How far up does it go....
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If the guy doesn't clean, yeah, but just as much (I would think) as if I had anal sex with a woman. That's where condoms help twofold.
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masamune -
1. Which finger is longer? Your ring finger, or your index finger? I heard a rumor months ago that if your index finger is longer than your ring finger, then you're gay. Never been able to confirm this.

2. What would you say if I told you that after looking at your pictures online (Indecision & ComputerJLT), I could sort of see that you're gay by the way you look? I dunno. Maybe I'm biased since I already know you're gay.

3. If a good friend bought you a pink shirt with no sleeves as a gift, would you wear it?

4. Do you talk on the phone a lot? Are you able to talk for hours at a time with normal friends (not intimate)?

5. Do you have more girl friends or guy friends?

6. If you saw a magazine that had such articles on the cover:
"How to tell if he is cheating on you"
"10 sexy secrets to leave him begging for more"
"How she lost 30 lbs and kept it off"
Would you be inclined to read them? hehe.

7. Ok, last one. Who is a famous person who I would probably know, that is gay, and acts the same way as a straight person? (just for comparison).
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1. My ring finger.
2. Good guess?!?! But the Ninja shirt did give that one away.
3. To go clubbing with on the weekends, yeah. At work in the Dilbert-like office, probably not.
4. I hate the phone. That is my biggest pet peeve. I can't stand the talking on there, the ringing, everything about it.
5. More guy friends.
6. I would compare what I do with the 10 sexy secrets list and find out what they are doing wrong, but that's about it.
7. The lead singer to Lit looks a little alternative to me, but like I said before, I have a warped gaydar.


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chimney -
how many of us are interested in "classic manly" sports(usa football, baseball)??
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I am not that interested. I don't play myself, but I follow how bad the Indians and Browns suck ;-)
I bowl myself, however manly that is.



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IceMan713 -
i got a question, do you get offended when we like make fun of people using mansechs and all that stuff?
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I don't get offended. I just laugh to myself, thinking "If only they knew." But now you know about me, I have to think something else ;-)



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masamune -
Do you think there's any advantages to being gay? Disadvantages? (other than being discriminated against)
I don't know of any advantages, but one disadvantage would be that you can't have babies with your significant other.
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Advantages would include all Indecision described earlier and the fact that if you are comfortable with yourself, then more power to you. If you know you are gay, then being gay is an advantage. Also it is easier to find someone also interested in muscle cars like you. Finding a woman under the hood of a 'Cuda is rare indeed!
Disadvantages would include no tax breaks or other state benefits that married couples recieve.



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DeRez -
how do you decide who picthes and who catches?
do you take turns?
after the pitcher is done do you switch?
or do you do the reach-around thing?

do you have to shit right after?

what happens if you fart?

does it hurt?
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So far I have taken turns. Asking prior usually makes things go smoothly.
I have only switched oncec because we were so tired. I would be willing to do it again, though.
Reach-around is the best! Well, ok, not THE best but pretty darn good!
Sometimes if you get fucked right after a big meal, but most times not.
Just take it as a funny thing and laugh it off, keep going. It's like a woman queefing (sp?). It doesn't happen that often.
For the full effect, you don't have to go in deep at all. But if you are getting fucked all the way, it is a little painful at first. That wears away very quickly, however. Especially with lubrication, it is very pleasurable. I have known guys that get fucked and don't even touch their dicks and get off! Stifler is so right!!



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cynf00-
When it was made known to yourself that you were gay, I am sure some (or most) of the people who professed to be your friends abandoned you. After a while, did this really affect you? Did you feel like you had actually lost a large portion of your friends? Or was it more like I react towards people that judge me based on my looks - "if they do not like me for me, they're obviously very stupid, and ugly, and jealous of my ravishing good looks."
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I have been fortunate enough not to have anyone abandon me. I only brought me closer to them really. The few friends I do have are very close so coming out was like a bonding experience. It had nothing to do with looks, but really how I felt about it and comfortable I was with it. They were comfortable with whatever I was comfortable with. These are the best of friends.



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megashawn
I'm just curious, but it seems to me that constant stretching of your asshole could result in some serious problems later on down the road. It seems like you would have trouble keeping from shitting all over yourself, or holding a fart. I'm not trying to be insulting, but rather more curious if these are infact problems, or do the pleasures outwiegh the problems?
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If you relax, expect that it is coming, open up like you are going to take a shit, and have had manual manipulation for a little while with lube you will not have a problem. You are only stretching it if you are not letting it relax. If you are relaxed, the muscles give and will return to the same place again.



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vrtek

here a question for a gay guy from a gay guy

1. how many guys you stared at when you in High school? 7 guys i like in my high school.

2. have you accident say a word out when you saw a cute guy? I did 1 time.
this happened when i was still in the closet. I was in my friend's car and he was driving. We drive around Balyor campus and i saw this cute powerlifter guy joging without a shirt. I said "DAMN!" but my friend had his music loud so he didn't hear me. I was shocked that i said that out loud.
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I stared at a lot of guys, but 5 in particular. Damn swim season in gym was fun!!!
I did once, but I think he just ignored me! If he had turned around, I was going to be happy to explain the wonderful being standing in front of me, though.




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mossman -
whats wrong with a pussy?
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I am allergic to them.... oh you mean vaginas!!
I have no problems with them, if they stay quiet and are behind closed doors away from me I am ok with them. They just don't excite me.



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Jennipher
I know you guys aren't attracted to women...but when you look at women do/can you think "Wow, she is beautiful". Or anything like that? I'm sure there is appreciation there, no?

I mean, you could still go 'looking for babes' with your best buds, right? Or is every girl just another girl?
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I can appreciate a woman the same way a str8 man can appreciate Brad Pitt. Just no action in the pants when viewing a Playboy, that's all. Imagine the reaction a strt8 guy would get if he was looking at a Playgirl, "Wow I bet he gets all the women..." but nothing really that sexual and it wouldn't turn him on.



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MadMac -
One little question:
How would you like to be refered to? (gay, queer, homo, etc.)
Besides the political corectness I mean.
If I'm not mistaken, it's more important BY WHOm and HOW it's done, right?
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I don't care how you call me as long as you are not condesending or demeaning in your thoughts. I personally don't like "queer" but that is just me and it doesn't matter all that much.



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ComputerJLT

I got a question actually....... kinda related but not in a direct way......

Do any of you watch Queer as Folk? thats a good sho IMO
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Very good show!! I watch it all the time (after I have downloaded the movie clips ;-)). There is a very good mix of personalities there for people to identify with, whether str8 or gay.
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sanjay -
I mean if someone on this thread that gets flamed decides to buy all of you...... "[G]ay and proud" or something?

The question is related in a way to the issue of 'coming out of the closet'.

Here in the safety of Bone Closet/ Gay Guy thread you are safe and have peers.....out in genmay you are relatively anonymous from bigots.

With a title that privacy may be gone. Just a random question within the scope of this thread.
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I wouldn't mind myself. What are they going to do? Flame me or boycott any of my threads? Then I will lurk and post someplace else.




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Mister Internet -
Do you feel it's "fair" (since the same PC society that caters to gays also is concerned with everything being "fair") that gay guys get to use the Men's locker rooms/showers?
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I don't think it is fair, but I have as much of a chance with a str8 guy (maybe less) than if you were in a woman's lockerroom. What would be a good solution? I don't know of any.



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zëro -
Spit or Swallow?

My first question is, how important will children be in your future? Furthermore, would you/will you approve of their orientation either way?
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Swallow of course!!! That is the only way to go! Shooting all over is just a waste!
I don't want children. If I did, I wouldn't care, but I would talk to them about it a lot. I am gay and if I had a kid, I want them to know the mistakes I made so they don't repeat them (a gay guy having a kid!).



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mossman -
Why are so many gay people so happy that they are gay? Gay Support groups? Gay pride? Why?
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Why do Brazilians have their Carnival? Why does New Orleans have Mardi Gras? They are happy with themselves and it is an excuse to party.
Support groups, like this thread, are to gain understanding through knowledge. What would you say to AA attendees? Why are they in a group? They are trying to conquer a demon that is tearing them apart. Ignorance tears us apart in the same way and support groups are good ways to convey information.



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WireX -
ok, how do you tell someone who is gay who is comming on to you that you arn't interested? Without being a total ass...
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Having been in that situation, the easiest thing is to just tell the guy that you are not interested and go about your way. Fast and painful, but needed to be done, like a bandage.



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k1llr0y -
do u guys get offended when u over hear ppl calling each other gay, homo, fag etc. as a put-down in place of moron, asshole, etc.
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I just laugh to myself because they don't know what I know about who is paying attention to the comments. My friends that I have told don't say things like that anymore or at least it is in the back of their mind if they do, thinking I might get offended. I am not offended by that.
If they would like to identify a man for me that is gay, great! My gaydar needs all the help it can get!!!



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Jabroni31169 -
How old are you guys?

If you do decide to have kids with your partner....how do you plan to deal with his questions about why bobby has a dad and a mom and he only has a dad and a dad? How do you explain the Birds and the Birds to him?

Are you religious?
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I would explain just like what teachers, books, and magazines and pornos tell you. When they ask why I am gay, I say I love what I love. That love isn't in a book because it is different, not wrong. Explaining the brids and bees is easy. There are manuals for that!!
I am not that religous. I just can't get into a belief that is based on the mortal shortcomings of man using rudimentary skills of written language to write a short text about something that is superhuman. I believe there is something out there, my astronomy professor proved it to me in class, but there is no mortal way to express it, explain it, classify it, or think that an insignificant protein complex like myself can mean anything to it. Agnostic yes, but practice Lutheranism ;-) </religious rant>



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metabolite -
What do you think of the unfair double standard of pride of being gay being okay versus the pride of being straight being wrong and discriminatory?
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I don't think it is wrong for str8 pride. Proud of your sexuality is your business. I am not the person to crossdress and ride on the biggest float in the parade, but I know who I am and if someone wants to know, then ask.
If you are the type (gay or str8) that has to annouce your sexual preference, then so be it. Makes my gaydar even more accurate that way!! If the pride is really rambuncious, (sp?) then it is just annoying, not wrong. That is the same for str8 as it is for gay.



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Necrosprite -
Do you find that because there are way less gay guys (available for you) than women for straight men, that you feel more pressured to get a boyfriend? because there's less to choose from and that theyre so rare that you have less of a chance to ever find a partner for life?

or do you have the same standards as everyone and feel you shouldnt have to sacrifice anything?
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I feel that you will find someone that fits your fancy. Gay guys will have a harder time finding that person, but I think it can still be done. Gay men are a tight-knit group (just look at the gathering pride parades bring out) and the chances you will find someone that interests you will be similar to a str8 man finding a woman to be with.



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BMCreider -
Regarding homo phobics in school. Do most people you know/knew (any gay guy here) in high school make fun of you or anything?
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They make fun as a joke, but I just back the the retort that they have a tuna fish obsession. It doesn't work too well, but that's all I have come up with so far!!
I have been made fun of for other stuff, so gayness is just one other thing. I do think it is any more severe joking, just a different topic to joke to me about.




Well, if you have read through that, I am sorry! :-) If any of that made sense, even more power to ya!!!!!

If you have any questions, please PM me.

PS - Oh here is what I look like. I think you will have to just drag this to the URL bar. http://d_zeager.tripod.com/hass_out.jpg
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Old 07-20-2002, 11:21 AM dbzeag is offline  
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OK I have a question... why do you feel that you have to post a thread like this? I would think that it would be a little humiliating. I'm not saying that your ashamed of being gay... but why have people ask you questoins about it?

And btw, I have nothing wrong with your being gay....
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Old 07-20-2002, 11:26 AM Ice|Burn is offline  
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It is humiliating to answer questions asked of you? I am missing the logic there.

People want to know things and are afraid to ask. The premise of the first Ask A Gay Guy Anything was to be a place to do just that, ask anything. As you can read, people had questions that were not answered with other medias, so they chose to ask them using the thread, which was the purpose the whole time.

I just added my input to the questions originally posted because I think the questions merited the value of me compiling them and answering them.
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Old 07-20-2002, 11:37 AM dbzeag is offline  
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I didn't mean to offend you. I just don't completely understand the logic behind the idea. But that's ok... There's a lot of things I don't understand yet....
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Old 07-20-2002, 11:40 AM Ice|Burn is offline  
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That's why there are threads like this, so you can ask questions if you want/need to know something.

I wasn't offended, just wondering what you meant.

Did you read any of the first thread? I just didn't answer in it before it was closed, that's all. I thought I would make a more condensed list of the questions for easier viewing.
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I didn't read any of it... because honestly I don't really care what other people are doing in their bedrooms (or whereever the get it on)

Of course it doesn't necessarily have to revolve and sex.....
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Ok then, now I know what you meant.

And no I am not really that humiliated. It is an online forum. I am not going to get the same flack for this that I would IRL if I told someone these answers to his or her face (which I would also if someone asked me a question).

If you are offended by the questions, the answers, or responses, I apologize. I thought it was a way to answer questions that have been on the minds of people too afraid to ask any other way. I felt my answers might help someone learn more about what they were asking.
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If you are offended by the questions, the answers, or responses, I apologize. I thought it was a way to answer questions that have been on the minds of people too afraid to ask any other way. I felt my answers might help someone learn more about what they were asking.

Ok first... DON'T EVER BE OFFENDED BY WHO YOU ARE!!

I could give a shit less of your gay or not. In fact I have several very close friends who are gay. I do think that answering others questions is a way to help them get over the phobia of homosexuality. So if someone actually posts a REAL question.. answer it... they deserve to know.
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OK I have a question... why do you feel that you have to post a thread like this? I would think that it would be a little humiliating. I'm not saying that your ashamed of being gay... but why have people ask you questoins about it?

And btw, I have nothing wrong with your being gay....
The reason I started the original thread is because I know that there's a lot of misinformation and lack of information out there. Plus, it's one of those topics that a lot of people wonder about, and have questions about, but it's not really something they feel comfortable bringing up.
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Thanks for the input. I guess this thread will go by the wayside as well.



Those questions that I answered were real questions, questions frrom the other thread. Those are real concerns.
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