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He has that book... I think it might be responsible for him becoming more of an asshole in general.

Off topic but out of interest did the book get him laid?
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Old 03-19-2010, 05:49 AM Mr. Susan is offline  
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this has nothing to do with the girl, she showed no interest at any time and wasnt leading the guy on. But thanks for showing your misogyny.

maybe you should read the OP:

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He realizes he's still in love with the first girl, and then coincidentally, she starts being flirty and nice to him again instead of returning his hostility. He decides to start hanging out again, and she asked him to walk her to and back from a friend's. He takes her to one of her girlfriend's houses, and goes with his friends to see a movie. He comes back to walk her home, only to find she slept with someone twice in the time he was out. He flips, and starts going into that "post-proposal" state of being sarcastic, dark, and severely pessimistic.

girl in question flirts with OP's friend, asks him to walk her to and from some event, on the walk back just happens to let slip that she fucked some guy twice during that time?

she is toying with him, you'd be blind not to see that.
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Sounds like your a-typical case that he thinks the woman he is attracted to is a castle princess who will marry her knight in shining armor when in fact she is your everyday college chick who will fuck anyone with enough drinks or fist pumps. Until he can come to this conclusion himself, he is hopeless. The fact that she started flirting after he got laid is all the proof you need.
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He has that book... I think it might be responsible for him becoming more of an asshole in general.

He has been abused, he would seriously benefit some professional help. This isn't a normal case where hes just bad with girls or hes simply hung up on a girl, it seems like there's much more here. If hes contemplating suicide every once in a while, one day he could go low enough and attempt. Just my 2 cents, I could be wrong. Either way this guy is acting, being an asshole or depressed, he sounds miserable and needs more than you, as a caring friend, can really offer.
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This isn't love, its infatuation... and it sounds bad enough that he should talk to a professional.
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To summarize the update, he indirectly called this girl a slut in conversation and the bridges are now completely burnt after a pretty big fight. A large part over it is that she stopped using protection, since she said that she was on the pill and that she was sure that her partners wouldn't lie to her about their STD status. Her stupidity is not my problem.

Buddy's come out of his state a bit, he has work to occupy him, and he's feeling a bit better. I got him to consider counselling, so I figure that's something good.
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To summarize the update, he indirectly called this girl a slut in conversation and the bridges are now completely burnt after a pretty big fight. A large part over it is that she stopped using protection, since she said that she was on the pill and that she was sure that her partners wouldn't lie to her about their STD status. Her stupidity is not my problem.

Buddy's come out of his state a bit, he has work to occupy him, and he's feeling a bit better. I got him to consider counselling, so I figure that's something good.

Yeah... he needs counciling no matter how good hes doing right now.

A friend of mine threatened suicide a few months ago... then she said she was doing fine, and she seemed to be for about a month. she didn't continue counciling, despite my insistence that she do so... then a bad day at work had her thinking about suicide. Luckily, she didn't call me, but rather setup a series of counciling appointments and has been going ever since and has made some progress. I think about people like that as running along the blade of a knife... as long as nothing pushes them from the side they're fine... but any little hiccup and they fall off the edge.
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