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Let the kids in, leave sis+man outside.

They drop the kids off at the door, they do not enter house.

Simple as that.
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Let the kids in, leave sis+man outside.

They drop the kids off at the door, they do not enter house.

Simple as that.

Mom can't take care of the kid everyday.... Taking care of a stroke victim as well as working 6 AM - 5 PM is enough
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Let the kids in, leave sis+man outside.

They drop the kids off at the door, they do not enter house.

Simple as that.

In truth, I have told my mom it's time to draw the line, she said she is getting the wills changed, which I assume takes some time doing it with a lawyer and such, and then she will make the serious move.
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In truth, I have told my mom it's time to draw the line, she said she is getting the wills changed, which I assume takes some time doing it with a lawyer and such, and then she will make the serious move.
that seems like the least of the things to worry about right now, unless she's in imminent failing health.
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that seems like the least of the things to worry about right now, unless she's in imminent failing health.

Well uhh, my dad kind of is, and thats whose will she is trying to get changed. Requires expert advice because he can't exactly sign his name.
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Well uhh, my dad kind of is, and thats whose will she is trying to get changed. Requires expert advice because he can't exactly sign his name.
it doesnt all go to her first as a surviving spouse?
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it doesnt all go to her first as a surviving spouse?

that may be if there was no will. He can have his will specify who ever he wants to have of his property. He can't will his living wife's property away.
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Mom can't take care of the kid everyday.... Taking care of a stroke victim as well as working 6 AM - 5 PM is enough

ofc not, but i got the impression that your mother took care of her kid now&then. What I meant was just for your mother to not let sis+man inside the house when she did.
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ofc not, but i got the impression that your mother took care of her kid now&then. What I meant was just for your mother to not let sis+man inside the house when she did.

Yeah I get what you're saying, and she does take care of her every now and then, but that's kind of when my sister/man come over. She comes over 3-5 times a week and just hangs out, watches TV, and lets her kid run around like shes officially off-duty.

Personally after this last episode, I don't care what my mom thinks because there's a just a point where you have to draw a line in the sand. Stealing from the person who give birth to you and raised you is definitely it. No entrance to the house, complete cut off of support, and if she deems necessary child protective services. Come anywhere close and police will be involved. Anyone object to this, or is this what should happen? To me this is the only option. The more you become an addict, the higher the tolerance. The higher the tolerance, the more money you need. They are already in massive debt, so this can only result in more stealing IMHO
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I won't comment on the last part of your post because I have no experience with this kind of situation, but for the first part. Can't she just take the kid and leave them at the door to go do whatever for some hours?

Let the kid in, not the parents kinda deal
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Wow. I'm going through the exact same thing as you, man. Like, to the T. Sisters stealin' shit from the family and her kids, it's crazy. And take it from me, it's hard to make your parents realize they need to put their foot down, cause it's their kid. I've talked my parents until I was blue in the face about that shit, there's really no use. They will realize when they do it on their own, and even then, after that initial being really angry stage, they'll go back. It's ridiculous.

Fake edit: She's an H fiend to, I didn't include that.
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Wow. I'm going through the exact same thing as you, man. Like, to the T. Sisters stealin' shit from the family and her kids, it's crazy. And take it from me, it's hard to make your parents realize they need to put their foot down, cause it's their kid. I've talked my parents until I was blue in the face about that shit, there's really no use. They will realize when they do it on their own, and even then, after that initial being really angry stage, they'll go back. It's ridiculous.

Fake edit: She's an H fiend to, I didn't include that.

Yeap, it sucks balls. I want to say something. I've been told I should say something. But my mom has done nothing but the right things so far:
-Changing the locks on the mailbox, our house, putting a lock on a room to put stuff in
-Keeping a decent watchful eye on her in general
-Not letting her move back in, even if she wanted to unless she gets a divorce and cleans herself up.
-Doing her best not to support her other than SOME shelter (She never sleeps at home, just spends time during a few days a week).

So shes been making right moves for the most part, I'm going to stick by her side even though people have told me I should talk to my sister and just wait for her to get the wills changed and we can have a talk together. It's best to avoid any legal hassles anyways, even though I doubt she has the intellect to ever do such a thing.
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have you consulted a professional (therapist, doctor, drug rehabilitation worker) yet?
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have you consulted a professional (therapist, doctor, drug rehabilitation worker) yet?

No, I haven't. I'm basically doing what my mom thinks is best at the moment.

However.... She is currently letting them come in and just trying to monitor them as best she can. I just got in for a brief visit today and plan to stay for a few days. Currently, my sister and her husband are coming over on occasion to do yard work and clear off some wallpaper to help my mom out. The problem: My mom is paying them to do so. I tried to explain to her that this is supporting her drug addiction, but she thinks they need it for their shelter and to hopefully get their life back on track.

I mean sure, they can wake up one day and get their act together, but until we see it I keep telling her "Why support her drug habit?" Either way, my mom is getting the Will changed in approx 1 week, and she has declared she will explain to them that she knows what has been going on, and explain that she changed the wills, etc... and hopes she will have a wake-up call from it.

Personally, I don't know what to say anymore as to how I fit in on this. On one hand, I could put a gun to her head and pull the trigger with the hardships she has caused the woman who gave us life. Dead serious. I have no love for my sister anymore, she is no longer family in my eyes. If anyone finds this sick or something, I'm sorry, I can't change the way my mind and personality are. On the other hand, my mom absolutely loves her grand daughter... just...way too much. I don't know what to say anymore... Just... Confusion
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if it is heroin, get her into detox stat.
heroin is the worst there is.
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